Take the free assessment to discover what is unique about how you connect, reach out in ways that feel true, and find your people.
Surveys found some adults report having no close friends, while many made a new friend in the prior year and consider close friends important. This makes shared settings a useful focus for taking warm steps to connect with others.
Surveys show a lot about how people think about friendship and staying in touch. Here is what people across the country share about their everyday social lives.
Take a quick quiz to see how you naturally connect with others, then follow simple steps to find your people.
Answer 21 short questions about how you handle get-togethers, invites, and everyday chats.
FreeLearn what makes your approach to friendship unique and what quietly holds you back from reaching out.
FreeFollow practical daily guidance for showing up comfortably, starting warm conversations, and keeping in touch.
PremiumSurveys show a lot about how people think about friendship and staying in touch. Here is what people across the country share about their everyday social lives.
In a 2021 survey, 12% of Americans reported having no close friends.
Survey Center on American LifeIn the same 2021 survey, 46% reported making a new friend in the prior 12 months.
Survey Center on American Life61% of U.S. adults say close friends are extremely or very important for a fulfilling life.
Pew Research CenterEach profile names how the problem shows up for you, then connects your answers to the path that fits best.
You bring genuine warmth and reliable presence whenever invited, but you wait for others to create the plan.
You read the room with precision and settle in comfortably, but you wait for someone else to bridge the conversational gap.
You create rich and substantive conversations easily, but you skip casual group settings where new connections start.
You connect effortlessly during organized classes and workshops, but you let the connection end when the official session closes.
You think warmly of people you meet, but you hold back on following up out of respect for their busy schedules.
You comfortably navigate the city and try new venues solo, but you treat your outings as self-contained personal routines.
You value connection and enjoy going out, but you default to staying home whenever work fatigue sets in.
A short assessment reveals your profile. Free, takes about 3 minutes, no signup required.
"Taking the quiz helped me realize I was waiting for everyone else to reach out first. Practicing one small step for walking into a cafe alone changed my entire weekend."
"I used to stick purely to work conversations because structured settings felt safe. The sessions gave me natural ways to invite colleagues to informal coffee without feeling awkward."
"I already enjoyed going to galleries and events by myself, but I never spoke to anyone. Learning small, low-pressure opening lines helped me turn casual moments into real conversations."
Start with the free quiz, then pick a plan that fits your life for daily coaching.
Great for preparing for an upcoming gathering or your first solo outing.
Our most popular option for steadily building genuine local friendships.
Best for creating deep roots and a lasting community where you live.
Take the 21-question assessment to find your match among 7 people types and start meeting people who feel right for you.